~ by John and Diane
Although much of what I learned about Fostering kids has
come from God and experience, the books I read during my training was an
essential part of my foundation. I
am not sure if all Foster parent training is the same, or if adoptive parents
are aware of resources like this, but I wanted to share with all of you some of
the books I read during my training. Most of these deal with working with
children with histories of sexual abuse or other trauma.
I also included some information about the disciplinary
systems I reference, Love and Logic and 123 Magic. All these resources can be found on Amazon.com and I will
include them in our Amazon Books Links shortly, or just copy and paste them
into your browser to find them online.
Do you have books you would recommend other parents to
read? Please share your
recommended readings in the comments section!
The Fourteenth
Year - by Kelly Watt
Peter's Lullaby - by Jeanne Fowler
What Parents Need to Know - Help for Grieving and Traumatized Children
by William Steele
The
Sexualized Child in Foster Care: A Guide for Foster Parents and Other
Professionals by Sally G.
Hoyle
Troubled
Transplants: Unconventional Strategies for Helping Disturbed Foster and Adopted
Children by Richard J. Delaney Ph.D. and Frank R. Kunstal Ed.D.
Disciplinary Systems:
The Love and Logic series by Foster Cline and Jim Fay:
Parenting
With Love And Logic (Updated and Expanded Edition) (The Navigators Reference
Library) by Foster Cline
and Jim Fay
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Parenting the Hurt Child by Keck/.Kupecky
ReplyDeleteThe Connected Child - Karyn Purvis
Both of these books have been invaluable to me understanding the attachment process, why foster kids act the way they do, why traditional parenting techniques don't work with foster-adopted kids and what are some alternative methods to use. Lots of information on RAD or very helpful if you have a kid who acts "RAD"ish from time to time
Thank you so much for your recommendation! I know a lot of parents on our facebook page deal with RAD kids, and your recommendation will be very valuable to them. Thanks again for taking time to comment!
ReplyDelete~ John, FPR
via Diane (web diva)